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Why Did Jesus Fold the Napkin?

Why Did Jesus Fold the Napkin?

The Gospel of John (20:7) tells us that the napkin, which was placed over the face of Jesus, was not just thrown aside like the grave clothes.

The Bible takes an entire verse to tell us that the napkin was neatly folded, and was placed at the head of that stony coffin.

Early Sunday morning, while it was still dark, Mary Magdalene came to the tomb and found that the stone had been rolled away from the entrance.

She ran and found Simon Peter and the other disciple, the one whom Jesus loved. She said, ‘They have taken the Lord’s body out of the tomb, and I don’t know where they have put him!’

Peter and the other disciple ran to the tomb to see. The other disciple out ran Peter and got there first. He stopped and looked in and saw the linen cloth lying there, but he didn’t go in.

Then Simon Peter arrived and went inside. He also noticed the linen wrappings lying there, while the cloth that had covered Jesus’ head was folded up and lying to the side.

Was that important? Absolutely!
Is it really significant? Yes!

In order to understand the significance of the folded napkin, you have to understand a little bit about Hebrew tradition of that day.

The folded napkin had to do with the Master and Servant, and every
Jewish boy knew this tradition.

When the servant set the dinner table for the master, he made sure that it was exactly the way the master wanted it.

The table was furnished perfectly, and then the servant would wait, just out of sight, until the master had finished eating, and the servant would not dare touch that table, until the master was finished..

Now if the master were done eating, he would rise from the table, wipe his fingers, his mouth, and clean his beard, and would wad up that napkin and toss it onto the table.

The servant would then know to clear the table. For in those days, the wadded napkin meant,  “I’m finished..”

But if the master got up from the table, and folded his napkin, and laid it

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Why Saying “I’m sorry” Is Not Enough

Powerful WISDOM in these words when an apology is needed to reconcile an offended party…!!!  Read and apply it to your relational network…!!!

Why saying “I’m sorry” is not enough
Offra Gerstein, Ph.D.

Everyone makes mistakes in life and in interpersonal relationships, many of which require apologies and redress. Yet, it is very hard for many people to say “I’m sorry” and even when they do it may be insufficient in healing the injured party.

You may remember in childhood being told to say “I am sorry” to someone who you have wronged while you felt no remorse, shame or even understood the nature of your misconduct. You may have further been coerced to promise that you will not repeat this behavior. You complied to terminate the scene.

Perhaps it may have pleased your parents to believe that they taught you a lesson in proper conduct, compassion and social responsibility. Actually, it accomplished none of the above. What you learned is to quickly utter these words to please your parents and avoid worse consequences.

The English poet, Alexander Pope, said, “To err is human, to forgive divine.” Making mistakes is expected and feeling regret about hurting others demonstrates our self- awareness and decency. Accepting apologies from others recognizes their imperfections and unites us all as flawed but lovable humans.

Beverly Engel in “The Power of Apology: Healing Steps to Transform All Your Relationships” states, “Apology has the power to heal individuals, couples and families. Almost like magic, apology can mend our relationships, soothe our wounds and hurt pride, and heal our broken heart.”

Regrettably, most of us have not been properly instructed about how to apologize earnestly. Many still believe that saying “I am sorry” is sufficient to mend all fences. Many erring individuals, who committed small or grave transgressions, utter these words to restore their own status, reduce punishment and/or keep the loyalty of others.

Current public examples of empty apology givers include; politicians who abused the system, athletes who used performance enhancing drugs, unfaithful prominent leaders who betrayed their families, their voters or fans, embezzlers and con artists, as well as criminals who committed unspeakable crimes.

We have

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UCSF

UCSF

Thanks for checking in…!!!

Today was Irene’s three month checkup at UCSF.  After the blood draw she was examined by Dr. Lloyd Damon who has been her lead physician since May of 2007.  Dr. Damon is very pleased with Irene’s progress/status as we await the cappa light chain (Primary Amyloidosis) results next week.  Dr. Damon is confident that the Amyloid remains in remission. 

We are, of course, awaiting its complete withdrawal from her body…!!!

Against all traditional wisdom and modern medicine, we’re also patiently awaiting Irene’s kidneys to wake up…!!!

Thanks for caring…!!!

Dave

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